Communicating with a man - how to be heard?

How often do we hear from friends and women in general - "Oh, he doesn't understand me!". Usually, when we agree with this and complain about men's "incomprehensibility," we women often forget that in order to be understood in a conversation with a man, we need to take into account the peculiarities of his thinking and perception of information (this also applies to a woman's understanding of a man).

And with this very important question, how does a man think? "There aren't many ladies who ask questions. But if we take these features into account, then "random communication" can be, if not avoided, then significantly reduced. What are both men and women afraid of? This is common to all — a misunderstanding! He interrupts you twice as often as you interrupt him. As a rule, he listens attentively to you for only a couple of minutes. And at the same time, he evades the answers without specifying anything. It's useless to argue with him before sex. Therefore, you should always start with the most important thing, talk about the substance, and only then move on to the details. Don't tell a man "it seems to me&"because the answer will be "you need to cross yourself" — because a man perceives the situation through the prism of his influence on her, and an uncertain situation baffles him and only irritates him. It's better to say with confidence, "I think so," and it will sound more specific and convincing than it seems to me.". There is a reason for a specific discussion of the situation, and this, by the way, increases the productivity of communication. Men use nouns and verbs more in conversation, so you can assume that this is the case if he says: "Yes, it's not bad."". Don't plan a late-night showdown because:

1. He will think that you are deliberately starting a conversation at a time when he is tired after a day at work and has not yet been distracted from thoughts about work and feels vulnerable.;


2. He thinks that the dispute may drag on, it can lead to unpredictable consequences, and at best it will prevent him from getting enough sleep or having sex.

Don't forget about men's fears either. One of the fears of the stronger sex is the fear of competition. That's why they like to talk a lot about power and make fun of female politicians. Therefore, dear women, take care of him and your nerves! Don't act like a strong woman with him, but let him feel strong with you, even if you are the first lady of the country. There is also a man's fear of getting into your network. Because of him, they make false promises, thinking that with this help they will get sex from you and maintain their independence, not even suspecting that most women will immediately discover the slightest shade of their lies. A woman is able to put any fact at her service and in the most convenient way for her. That's why the number of top managers among us is growing at a tremendous rate. And good luck in communication, dear women and men, because anyone who wants to learn how to listen and hear, will definitely achieve success in his personal life! Join 1xbet and claim your welcome bonus €130 using the 1xbet promo code valid today. 1Xbet Sportsbook section is the main place where users hang out, with over 1000 sporting events to bet each day. There are multiple choices to go for, and the betting markets, for example for soccer matches, can even pass 300 in number, and that is available for both pre-match and live betting, which is impressive and puts it right next to the big names in the industry.